Author |
Message |
< 16ga. General Discussion ~ I lost a hunting buddy |
|
Posted:
Fri May 24, 2019 9:32 am
|
|
|
Member
Joined: 06 Aug 2004
Posts: 2171
Location: Kansas High Plains
|
|
My wife's brother has been suffering with a terrible disease called Total System Atrophy (akin to Parkinson's or Lou Gehrig's); he's been wheel chair bound for the past few years. We lost him Wednesday. He was about 14-15 years old when I first showed up as a long haired freaky art student for my first date with his big sister; he's almost more brother to me than my own two, both somewhat older than I. We've stomped many a bird cover together and even though I always toted a double gun and he shot one of those auto thingies (and shot them well) we navigated these old prairies pretty well. In a way it's a blessing I suppose; he had nothing but suffering ahead. But still. Here he is in happier times with his three granddaughters. Stanley Merlin Critchfield - rest well, brother. I love ya. I'm reminded of the ending of a John Hewitt story where John's father was asked if an old friend had been a good hunting partner. His reply: "As good as there was. As good as there was."
|
_________________ I feel a warm spot in my heart when I meet a man whiling away an afternoon...and stopping to chat with him, hear the sleek lines of his double gun whisper "Sixteen." - Gene Hill, Shotgunner's Notebook |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted:
Fri May 24, 2019 10:12 am
|
|
|
Joined: 16 Jul 2015
Posts: 2124
Location: Hudson,Wy
|
|
I am saddened by your loss. It's odd how memories hover along with us. I woke up this morning and something I did reminded me of Jimmy, my outdoor buddy from childhood, who passed last September.
The more time we all spend together, especially doing the meaningful and triumphant things that nature permits us in the great outdoors, the stronger the bond and more compelling the memories are. The absences become powerfully difficult but the reminiscences are so much sweeter... and that's what makes us smile, giggle, or cry at most unexpected moments. These are the reminders that let us know that our friend was truly a loved and cherished part of our family and who we are. I pray for your comfort and that your recollections bring tears of joy at the times when you need them most. |
_________________ Only catch snowflakes on your tongue AFTER the birds fly south for the winter... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted:
Fri May 24, 2019 11:08 am
|
|
|
Joined: 17 Mar 2017
Posts: 2787
Location: Endless Mountains of Pa
|
|
f2f,
WyoChukar put it into words that I never could, I only add this, be grateful that the Lord let you have such a trusted friend and hunting partner, cherish his memory always.
Very sorry for your loss.
Pine Creek/Dave
L.C. Smith Man |
_________________ "L.C. Smith America's Best" - John Houchins
Pine Creek Grouse Dog Trainers |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted:
Fri May 24, 2019 11:30 am
|
|
|
Member
Joined: 15 Apr 2007
Posts: 9455
Location: Amarillo, Texas
|
|
I am sorry for you loss!!
Losing a friend and hunting buddy is particularly troubling.
Mike |
_________________
,
USAF RET 1971-95 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted:
Fri May 24, 2019 11:31 am
|
|
|
Joined: 14 Feb 2017
Posts: 401
|
|
May we all be so lucky to be blessed with good friends, good dogs, good hunting and great memories.
God Bless |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted:
Fri May 24, 2019 7:38 pm
|
|
|
Member
Joined: 10 Jul 2010
Posts: 356
Location: Ponchatoula, Louisiana
|
|
I, too, am saddened by your loss and pain.
In April, after suffering the debilitation of Parkinson's, my longtime hunting, fishing, and hunt test partner passed. A man of few words but great emotions who truly cherished his time in the field and on the water.
My condolences,
Chuck |
_________________ The reason I am awed by shotgun shooters is that most of them don’t know how in the hell they do what they do.
Charles F. Waterman, |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted:
Sat May 25, 2019 4:21 am
|
|
|
Joined: 04 Mar 2019
Posts: 1819
Location: Central ND
|
|
I have always been scared that when I lost someone close I would forget them. Time does heal the sharp pain of a loss, but the silver lining is that their memory lives on as bright as bright can be.
All my best..... |
_________________ Mark...You are entitled to your own opinion. You aren't entitled to your own facts. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted:
Sat May 25, 2019 6:36 am
|
|
|
|
Sorry to hear this, Phil. I've been hunting with the same "best friend" since we where in high school, and I can't imagine the loss you are feeling. Take comfort in knowing you had a good run doing what you love to do with a terrific member of the family. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted:
Sat May 25, 2019 7:21 pm
|
|
|
Member
Joined: 06 Aug 2004
Posts: 2171
Location: Kansas High Plains
|
|
Thank you, my friends, for your kind words. Stan would be humbled that so many good folks took the time to wish him Godspeed. It is much appreciated. |
_________________ I feel a warm spot in my heart when I meet a man whiling away an afternoon...and stopping to chat with him, hear the sleek lines of his double gun whisper "Sixteen." - Gene Hill, Shotgunner's Notebook |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted:
Wed May 29, 2019 6:08 am
|
|
|
Joined: 19 Jan 2019
Posts: 283
Location: Idaho & South Dakota
|
|
Sorry to hear about loosing your friend Phil. I'm sure he is in happier hunting grounds. Condolences to you and your family. |
_________________ "A gun should be a thing of beauty, something which gives its owner pride and pleasure. For that reason, most men will buy the best gun they can afford. With a good gun on his arm, a man becomes a sporting gentleman, both on the field and off." |
|
|
|
|
|
|